Ladies’
Home Erotica:
Reading the Seams Between Home-making and House Beautiful
by Kim Golombisky, doctoral candidate,
Department of Communication, University of South Florida
Abstract
Interior design and decorating magazines equate home with leisure,
a fantasy for female readers with jobs and families. Women’s magazines
typically compel women toward neurotic ideals of housework and family.
But decorating magazines represent an erotic vision of home wiped clean
of the family who makes housework as well as the reader’s own housekeeping
labor. However, this resistant version of home still encourages domesticity
by aligning the female reader’s identity and influence with the house.
Sunlight streams through a wall of windows draped with cheerful blue
and yellow fabric. A thick floral rug frames the quilt-covered loveseat.
Delicate bone china lines a bead-board corner hutch. Weathered bric-a-brac
and whimsy compose still-lifes here and there among clouds of fresh
flowers. Every pillow plumped, the rustic sunroom is pristine. There’s
no evidence of human occupation here except on the coffee table, next
to a cup of tea, someone’s reading glasses sit on an open book. Today
the magazine is Country Living.
In today’s home-interior design and decorating magazines, photographic
logic becomes erotica. At a time when U.S. working wives still do 70
percent of the housework (Rix, 1990), these magazines allow women to
turn a system that exhorts them to be neurotic about housekeeping into
a sexy vision of the house wiped clean of the family who makes housework.
Second-wave feminism prompted scholarly interest in the gendered
division of labor in this country. Socialist feminists, especially,
exposed how women’s domestic labor has supported the political economy
since the industrial revolution. But the academy struggles to operationalize
housework, while mainstream social institutions ignore it altogether
(Ferree, 1990; Levin, 1993). Meanwhile, despite their growing numbers
in the workforce, employed wives and mothers continue to work a "second
shift" at home (Hochschild, 1990), while a husband contributing to housework
is doing his wife "a favor" (DeVault, 1990; Ferree, 1990). As an unofficial
service industry, home making remains women’s invisible work.
At the same time, a number of highly visible discourses on the
home target U.S. women. Historically, consumer culture and mass media
have romanticized a white middle-class ideal of home as woman’s world.
Women’s magazines, particularly, trace more than a hundred years of
housekeeping advice increasing women’s responsibility for the scientific
efficiency, physical health, and psychological welfare of the family
(Damon-Moore, 1994; Doner, 1993; Ehrenreich & English, 1978; Lears,
1983; Miller, 1991). At the turn-of-the-century, changes in technology
led to a synergistic relationship between mass circulation women’s magazines
and national advertisers targeting the purchasing power of middle-class
women with mass-produced household products. This female-centered commerce
offered women a new, although limited, kind of freedom outside the home
through buying for the household. But it also institutionalized "a gendered
commercial discourse and a commercial gender discourse" that today continues
to define "women in terms of their place in the home and the products
used therein" (Damon-Moore, 1994, pp. 3 & 197).
But over the same period, another less studied group of literature
and periodicals feminized the interior design industry and handed women
additional responsibilities for producing artfully furnished houses
(Gordon & McArthur, 1988; Jones, 1997; McNeil, 1994). Like the marketing
housewife, the decorating homemaker also was encouraged to leave home
to make a better home (Jones, 1997). At the end of the 19th century,
in addition to the routine of purchasing cereal and soap, the he mansions
and castles of her social betters. By 1900, the rise of the department
store, credit, and cheaper reproduction goods allowed the "democratization
of luxury" (Williams, 1982) for an upwardly mobile but rather insecure
middle-class, anxious for a uniquely American style while nervously
looking to Europe for definitions of good taste (Jones, 1997; Lears,
1981; Levine, 1988). However, as the home-maker’s desires bedesigning
woman of the house was invited to experience the visual spectacle and
vicarious adventure of window shopping for more creative projects and
bigger ticket items with which to recreate at home the exotic--but in
hindsight oddly unpeopled--fantasy spaces displayed in public places.
She now was encouraged to visit department stores, exhibitions, museums,
and, via decorating experts’ texts, tgan to exceed her needs and economic
means, it became apparent that just looking at displays of beautiful
rooms, even photographed ones in magazines, was a pleasurable pastime
that both satisfied and fueled a vague desire for more. Interior design
advice has consistently defined the perfect house as an ongoing project
of yearning for something always just beyond the home-maker’s reach
in time and space (Jones, 1997).
Even though the discourses of home science and of home aesthetics
both compel women to identify with private home making through public
consumerism, their two messages essentially compete toward opposite
ends. Women’s magazines suggest a home should be filled with happy,
healthy family members. Interior design and decor magazines suggest
that home is perfection when there are no people in the house.
In this essay I use Janice Radway’s (1986) concept of "ideological
seams" to frame this contradiction. Taking a reflexive approach, I critically
interpret the ideological contradictions of reading home design magazines.
First, I discuss some assumptions regarding the women who purchase these
periodicals. Then I analyze these publications’ photographic grammar.
Finally, I scout for resistant uses and meanings. "My fieldwork has
been on myself and on my friends and family" (Coward, 1985, pp. 14-15),
all providing important insights for me, as a white, middle-class, married-with-children
woman, with a mortgaged house, and something of a crush on Martha Stewart
(http://www.marthastewart.com), the ‘90s doyenne of domesticity. Here
at the end of another fin de siecle, as I juggle hotly contested contemporary
definitions of "women," I marvel at both the persistence and permutations
of the "cult of domesticity."
Framework: Zigzagging Between Home-Making and Housekeeping
Somewhere between home-making and housekeeping lie
what Janice Radway (1986) would call "ideological seams," where discourse
and practice join imperfectly to persuade women toward contradictory
desires: making a home for the family’s comfort and keeping a house
scrubbed free of evidence of the family’s presence. For Radway, ideology
is not a smooth, continuous fabric, but a dynamic "patchwork quilt"
of "institutionalized but variable power relations, practices and activities"
(p. 109). The significance of such a model calls our attention to junctions
where pieces of the ideological worldview logically do not fit, but
they become basted together anyway and naturalized through unexamined
assumptions. Although we are bound up as objects of the ideological
quilt, at the raggedy seams we create fancywork, zigzagging, and applique‚
in an attempt to blend mismatched ideals. Radway’s metaphor illustrates
three important notions: 1) The seams make visible the fault-lines that
construct our desires. 2) On the seams, we work out ingenious tactics
for mending tears in the ideological reasoning our desires and their
fulfillment depend on. 3) However ingenious, we can never make a perfect
fit between either the seams or our desires.
Patriarchy is "driven by conflicts, slippages and imperfect joinings"
(Radway, 1986, pp. 109-110). As an ideology, it binds women into a worldview
where they can neither attain the self-determining power of male subjectivity
nor become the ideal female object. Mass culture exacerbates this untenable
situation for women by permeating everyday life with incomplete instructions
on how to operate as independent feminine subjects. Encouraged to fill
in the blanks, women never realize the whole enterprise is materially
impossible within the very ideology, which tells them that it not only
is possible but also should be their goal. Unraveling patriarchy then
means locating the places where women and men struggle to reconcile
what they’ve learned they should be with what they can be, given their
circumstances.
Radway takes seriously her female romance novel readers’ "claim
that they read simply to escape" from the constant demands of household
life. For Radway, this desire to escape marks the tension of an ideological
seam which romance novel reading addresses. "By placing the barrier
of the book between themselves and their families, they secure a certain
measure of privacy and personal space." So romance novel reading is
fancywork--creative resistance that temporarily transcends readers’
dissatisfaction with the contrast between the ideal of household life
and its everyday realities. But romance novel reading is fraught with
the very contradictions it is meant to address, according to Radway.
Relief lasts only through the novel’s last page; the novels themselves
fuel a desire for symmetrical gender relations unachievable in patriarchy;
and readers seem to choose this tactic of reading over others because
it simultaneously frees them from the constraints of the domestic routine
while fitting perfectly within them.
At first glance, design and decor magazines operate very much like
the barrier between themselves and household life that Radway’s romance
novel readers describe. These periodicals provide fantasy space, which
fits well within the household routine. Their content is full of the
contradictions women want to escape. The relief they provide is temporary
and their content always redirects readers back home again. As critics,
we can read these images as full of advice on how to achieve the perfect
house, which perpetuates women’s role as homemakers.
But such an analysis doesn’t account for the reader. Radway predicts
a "womanly subtext," where readers address their own interests; women
may read these magazines "against the grain" by resisting "dominant
practices of patriarchal signification" (1986, p. 98). Perhaps for female
readers the allure of gazing at beautiful rooms is that these photographed
places freeze moments in time when the home environment is completely
controlled. As such, they offer a fantasy power trip. Once made perfect,
an unoccupied room does what it’s told, stays put, does not require
constant keeping. Designed magazine rooms are void of the family’s everyday
living that disrupts the ideal of a perfect house, and so these pictures
appear to be submissive to the homemaker’s will. In magazine rooms,
readers take symbolic control of the home.
Because these kinds of zigzagging practices point to innate flaws
in patriarchy’s ideology as well as a kind of nascent feminist subversiveness,
they are places ripe for intervention, Radway says. For feminist scholarship,
the project then becomes prying open the ideological seams, challenging
them, and looking for opportunities for change. Persistent intervention
at the practical level of the mundane and interpersonal is a crucial
move toward the political. Everyday, easily overlooked, unglamorous
practices have the most significance for gender. "We must wonder what
power a politics of excluding the everyday and ‘the personal’ would
have in accounting for women’s oppression," Kathleen Kirby (1996) asks
in her analysis of women’s spatial subjectivity. Radway herself is forced
to argue for the significance of so-called women’s media and media habits
because they so often are denigrated as trivial or irrelevant. But the
subtle, hardly noticed ways women and men are offered and take up their
own genders ought to be the first seams we unravel.
While Radway’s ethnographic work seeks to understand others, I
struggle to understand the implications of my own zigzagging work when
I stare longingly at beautiful photographs of tasteful rooms. And while
Radway explicates romance novel readers’ talk about reading, I explicate
the photographic texts of the home design and decor magazines I find
so appealing.
The Reader: Buying into Home-Making
For female readers, the act of purchasing home interior design
and decoration magazines means they’ve already bought their roles as
home-makers, the people most responsible for the house’s interior. These
magazines do not convince a woman to take charge of home making; they
only reinforce what she already believes: The house is her sphere of
influence.
At the grocery store, I randomly picked 14 fall 1996 issues of
these magazines to compare their content: American Homestyle &
Gardening (http://www.dreamremodeling.com/index2.htm), Architectural
Digest, Colonial Homes (http://www.hearstcorp.com/mag1), Country
Home, Country Living (http://www.countryliving.com), House
Beautiful (http://www.housebeautiful.com), House & Garden,
Southern Accents, Today’s Homeowner (http://www.todayshomeowner.com),
Traditional Home (http://www.designerfinder.com), Veranda,
Victoria (http://www.homearts.com:80/victoria/index), Victorian
Home, and Better Homes & Gardens (http://www.betterhomesandgardens.com).
These titles represent 17 million paid copies for their combined
September 1996 issues, according to Standard Rate and Data Service (1996),
or a rough net reach of 9 million readers. That is a significant market
for publishers and advertisers selling everything from the idea of what
a furnished house should look like to the products with which to achieve
that look. Particular publishers position themselves in terms of class,
taste, historical period, geography, and decorating skill. But their
content is always the same: lots of 4-color pictures of beautiful, unoccupied
rooms. For all their apparent niche markets, these magazines are really
more alike than different. They address women in their private domiciles
with examples of how to create beautiful rooms.
Simmons Market Research (1990a, 1990b) and Mediamark Research (1989a,
1989b) were helpful for constructing a loose composite of this home
interior design magazine reader. She is a white, married, 30- to 40-something
woman. She is likely to have some children and some college education.
She tends to be employed outside the home, although she earns less than
half of her household’s annual income of roughly $50,000. In fact, she
tends to earn less than half of what her husband earns. She is a single-family-unit
homeowner and the female head-of-household. Predictably, her consumption
of these magazines increases somewhat the first year she lives in a
new house that needs to be made into a home.
Perhaps here I should clarify some terms. To my thinking, a household
includes the family and its belongings. The homemaker is the female
head-of-household who has assumed full-time responsibility for making
the private material structure called a house into the physically and
emotionally comforting affective environment called a home. Even though
she has a public career, the homemaker is still responsible for home
making, as well as housekeeping, although she may insist on help with
the housework.
This contemporary homemaker has the idea she works for herself
(and thus the rewards of her labor are her own) in her own home. She
believes that in the house there is no authority higher than hers. The
idea of home-making, assuming responsibility for the house, in her mind
means taking charge, which is a different proposition altogether than
being assigned responsibility for a chore (as she well knows because
she is the person who usually assigns household chores). Having power
over the poetic abstract noun home implies oh-so-much more than the
concrete noun house. Home making points to creating something of value
that lasts and offers rewards. Housework is tantamount to slavery, but
home making "provides the opportunity for endless creative and leisure
pursuits" (Oakley, 1974, p. 41).
But the distinction between home making and housekeeping is merely
rhetorical. Twenty years ago, Ann Oakley’s (1974) stay-at-home housewives
said they disliked the monotony of housework, but they liked the autonomy
of being their own bosses. On the one hand, to be a homemaker implies
mastery of a private world. On the other hand, this mastery depends
on the homemaker’s labor, not leisure, and the source of her labor is
the household. Reframing housekeeping as home making does not change
its material circumstances. Women continue to have the most responsibility
for the interior of the house, which by virtue of always being open
for business, is a full-time job, whether or not these homemakers moonlight
at careers.
Similarly, defining married female heads-of-households as homeowners
is a misnomer. Rarely will a house belong to a woman based on her individual
earning power. Most women cannot afford to buy a house independently
because women’s wages across the board are substantially less than men’s
(Blum et al, 1993; Rix, 1990). For women, home ownership usually depends
on marriage, or at least a committed partner.
So defining home interior design and decor magazine readers, who
are working wives earning less than half of their household incomes,
as home-owning home-makers constitutes an ideological seam. The questionable
difference between being a home-maker and a housekeeper, and the unquestioned
difference between being a home owner and the wife of one, makes for
a raggedy tear in logic that home interior design and decor magazines,
and their readers, zigzag across.
Unlike the decorating magazines, "The Seven Sisters" (Better
Homes & Gardens, http://www.betterhomesandgardens.com; Family
Circle; Good Housekeeping, http://www.goodhousekeeping.com;
Ladies’ Home Journal, http://www.lhj.com; Woman’s Day,
no web site; McCall’s; and Redbook, http://www.homearts.com/rb/toc/00rbhpc1.htm)
offer women a 150-plus-year literary tradition of experts’ housekeeping
advice on wifery, mothering, cooking, dirt-and-germ warfare, and social
etiquette. Their helpful hints explicitly remind readers that they serve
the family. But the equally long U.S. literary tradition of home interior
design and decor advice focuses specifically on the material house,
its aesthetic atmosphere, and its artful furnishing, to the exclusion
of everything else distinguishing a house from a home. People, relationships,
housework, and labor itself all literally disappear from the picture
in these magazines. They wipe out everything "The Seven Sisters" harp
at homemakers about. Instead, the creative work of home making--making
a beautiful, inviting place of their houses--magically appears, even
though they don’t live there by themselves and couldn’t afford to anyway.
The seam, of course, is that the house always leads back to housekeeping.
The reader buys the ideal of making empty, perfect rooms, but forgets
the work, let alone the budget, it takes to create and maintain them,
especially when she is sharing those rooms with the family. Home interior
design and decor magazines obfuscate home and house and women’s relationships
to both.
The September 1996 issue of Today’s Homeowner was its premier.
In "Welcome Home," Editor in Chief Paul Spring wrote: "As all of you
regular readers of Home Mechanix know, we spent the summer remodeling—Today’s
Homeowner is the result." The new Today’s Homeowner was now clearly
trying to capture the female reader its formerly male title Home
Mechanix did not. Spring admitted the redesigned magazine wanted
to attract the more feminine "home-owning" and "homeowners," which meant
dumping the masculine "hobbyist." "We’ve even hung those useless little
towels in the guest bath," Spring wrote.
The Photographs: Fantasizing Perfect Rooms
The rooms in home interior design and decor magazines invite the
female reader to stand in photographic doorways to chart her longings
onto four-color landscapes. These magazines "hail" (Althusser, 1971)
her with absences. Here, yes, is a territory that remains in submission
to the homemaker’s will. Ah, how well all rude signs of budget limitations
and housework have been erased. At last, there are no bodies disturbing
the peace. The camera has captured the perfectly made home.
For the homemaker, this is an irresistible fantasy because the
object of desire, perfect rooms, mirrors an illusion of her more powerful
self. How silently drives the engine of its contradictions. She can
never achieve this standard she measures herself against. She visualizes
making the perfect home for herself and her family. But perfect rooms,
standing in for the perfect home, do not accommodate the household’s
people. Here I want to explain the photographic grammar of home magazines,
suggest why women find this grammar so appealing, and unravel the ideological
seams both magazine and reader must manage in this relationship.
Photos of perfect, unoccupied rooms do welcome readers with a particular
protocol. These pictures point to their own "hollow for the missing
person," defined by "crowds of signifiers," where the reader’s body
is meant to be (Williamson, 1978, p. 79). Judith Williamson (1978) describes
the reader’s identification with the "absent person" in this kind of
print media image: "The perspective of the picture places us in a spatial
relationship to it that suggests a common spatiality (as in all ‘classical’
art); everything is proportioned to the gaze of the observer--us, the
absent person ‘meant’ by the picture" (p. 78). Home design and decor
magazine photos hail readers with an enhanced estimation of their missing
but clearly indicated selves marked on the picture. A draped afghan
and an open book on the couch say, "You, come sit by this roaring fire.
You deserve to relax here." They say, "This is you." For a minute or
two, this is home.
"Surely this is the room where I would stay," wrote Janna Jones
(1997), looking at an Architectural Digest. "The white mosquito
netting flutters slightly as a cool breeze drifts through the French
door. Exhausted from the Caribbean sun, I crawl under crisp cool sheets
and take a nap until I am summoned for dinner. ... I have gained passage
to ... fantasy island ... by means of these images."
The I who gains passage into leisure time and space is the
reader who inserts herself to become the "leading actor" in a narrative
(Williamson, 1978). And by becoming subjects of this photographic narrative,
women readers become its ideological objects, target-marketed character
actors directed to re-enact a symbolic-symbiotic relationship to the
home’s house and its rooms. This is a fantasy of controlling the home
environment for the homemaker’s pleasure. But imagining power to control
the house perpetuates her relationship to the housework, hidden from
these pictures, that she’ll need to do to fulfill her fantasy. In the
throes of this magazine fantasy, she forgets to ask who will cook and
summon her to dinner as she naps on those freshly laundered sheets in
that cleaned and tastefully appointed Caribbean room. While the homemaker’s
implied absence is the necessary formula in the story, her own labor-intensive
attachment to the house, as well as her family, must be written completely
out of the script. This fantasy is a "regime of imagery" that "represses
any idea of domestic labor" (Coward, 1985, p. 66).
The absence of reality in these magazine rooms is precisely the
grammar that makes them work as possible fantasies. Their purported
seriousness as actual locations makes them all the more plausible. If
in addition to the cutout hollow for the reader’s absent self, these
rooms also implied cutout hollows for reality as she knows it, we would
have one of Williamson’s jokes (1978); an overt contradiction between
the ordinary and the extraordinary becomes a preposterous lampoon. Imagine
there also on the photograph is the dotted coupon line marking the spot
where the rug really lies out of alignment after the galloping dog rides
it across the floor, and there is the cutout of the children beating
each other with juice-stained sofa cushions, and there is the partner,
feet propped on the coffee table, surfing with the remote. And finally,
there is the real cutout for the reader, in her scruffy sweatpants,
not reading peacefully by the fire, but folding the family’s laundry
in front of the TV. A picture of that would make her laugh. The absurdity
of banal reality overlaid on the poetic imagination crushes the fantasy
of perfect rooms.
Erasing the budget, clock, household, and chores from the picture
makes a much more satisfying home-making fantasy, reflecting the reader’s
real underlying desire for some control over her responsibility for
the house as well as a space in it where she, too, can relax. Magazine
photos of beautiful rooms hail readers as women of leisure. But maintaining
standards of tidy and stylish, that look effortless but still welcome
and comfort human occupants, leaves little time for home-makers themselves
to "put up their feet," according to Ruth Madigan and Moira Munro’s
(1996) contemporary home-making respondents. Madigan and Munro uncover
a cycle of competing tensions between the women’s work of home fashion
and housework. Home furnishings should produce a stage set that visually
welcomes human occupation; housekeeping should ensure that the set is
not disturbed by human occupation. The beautiful-room fantasy exists
in reality only in the transitional period after the stage has been
set and before anyone walks on.
Of course homemakers find home design and decor magazines’ photographic
grammar seductive. "Everything shown is at an ideal moment" (Coward,
1985, p. 65). Such photos prolong the all-too-fleeting time after housework
when she has asserted some control over her house’s rooms. Theoretically,
gazing longingly at magazine pictures of the house that erase housework
positions the looking reader in exactly the fantasy she desires: as
a landlord surveying her property. According to Gillian Rose (1993),
the Western aesthetic "landscape" projects a patrician visual ideology
that conflates having the power to look at a place with mastering it.
A manicured landscape, as that which lies within a viewer’s field of
vision, symbolizes environmental control. The gaze itself, the ability
visually to organize and dominate the landscape, corresponds to a class-conscious
assumption of superiority. Vistas swept into the landscape gaze imply
the viewer has a privileged power over the scene. "The landscape gaze"
is a "sophisticated ideological device that enacts systematic erasures,"
Rose writes (1993, p. 87). In human-engineered environments, the grammar
of the aesthetic landscape tends to erase the work and worker who labor
to make the place so pleasant to look at.
But Rose argues we overlook the gendering of this visual domination.
"The active look is constituted as masculine, and to be looked at is
the feminine position" (p. 104). Western culture feminizes both nature
and landscape by conceptualizing them as bodies to be explored and subdued.
Rose’s landscape gaze (grandfather of the cinematic gaze) is powerful
and active. This masculine survey subordinates the feminine landscape,
which is constructed as passive and submissive while nurturing and sustaining.
Building on feminist psychoanalytic theory and Laura Mulvey’s (1989)
"scopophilia" (visual pleasure), Rose sees the contradictory pleasures
of the landscape gaze, which she calls an "erotics of knowledge." The
gaze, a white heterosexual male visual perspective, unstably oscillates
between voyeurism and narcissism, and so it erases itself. "The gaze
is then always torn between two conflicting impulses: on the one hand,
a narcissistic identification with what it sees and through which it
constitutes its identity; and on the other a voyeuristic distance from
what is seen as Other to it" (Rose, 1993, p. 103). The landlord holds
title over his landscaped property only as long as he continues to be
connected to it. But as long as his identity depends on his property,
he can never be autonomous from it. The landscape gaze both "interpellates"
(Althusser, 1971) itself through the feminine landscape and distances
itself from it (Rose, 1993).
Turning a site such as the house into a landscape for the female
homemaker to gaze upon constitutes an ideological seam and further complicates
the possibilities for her subjecthood. The home as privatized domestic
space already has been feminized once as woman’s domain. But as a landscape
it is feminized a second time as a body whose interior contours are
subdued and controlled for physical as well as visual pleasure. Appropriating
the male landscape gaze with which to turn the house into an aesthetic
object of desire makes invisible both the homemaker as the house’s laborer
and the family as her source of labor. This is knowledge she needs to
confront in order to understand her dissatisfaction with her relationship
to both. The homemaker’s gaze upon landscaped rooms, both corporeal
and photographic, seems to position her as both active master and passive
servant to them. Such a gaze seems to give her the voyeur’s power of
separation from and control over the house while at the same time giving
her identity a narcissistic connection to it. Here the voyeur’s power
is an illusion supported only by the absence of her own labor, and the
narcissist’s pleasure of identification undermines her efforts toward
an identity other than housekeeper. She is locked into the self-annihilating
oscillations of this narrative cycle between master and laborer.
What’s more, the homemaker herself represents the feminine projecting
her longing onto the feminized house. Kathleen Kirby (1996, p. 100)
makes clear why women’s relationships with feminized space are problematic:
"’Man’ becomes self by extricating himself from both woman and space,
metaphysically and metapsychologically." But women can’t objectify space
because, in the phallogocentric symbolic order, women "blend" into space.
Women and space occupy the same subordinate position. "Between the alienation
we (women) confront in material and metaphysical space and our intimacy
with it, a wavering, a distortion, or an inversion occurs" (Kirby, 1996,
p. 100).
The homemaker’s symbolic absence in home interior design and decor
magazine pictures erases her laboring relationship to the house. But
if an open book and a cup of tea signify her presence, her narrative
role is not scripted as master. Her gender, by definition, requires
her to pose as adornment, another pleasant bit of furniture. Where her
gender and respectability intersect, she and her agency elide into background
and disappear from the picture. Like a domestic version of Wolff’s (1990)
urban boulevard-strolling "invisible flaneuse," she becomes an impossible
creature, unrepresentable. The turn-of-the-century male flaneur "is
the modern hero"; he has "a freedom to move about in the city, observing
and being observed" (Wolff, 1990, p. 39), but the independent female
flaneuse, as a respectable woman, does not exist in literature or art.
Rose (1993) also finds this gender formula in 19th century pastoral
art: Unlike the master’s robust portrait, self-consciously conveying
his "potential for activity, his free movement over his property," the
manor-house mistress "is painted almost as a part of that still and
exquisite landscape" (Rose, 1993, p. 93). In either version, city or
country, the laborers, especially the women as factory and field workers
or domestic servants, are systematically erased. Nevertheless, whether
or not the contemporary design and decor magazine browser reads herself
as landlord or lady of leisure, her fantasy perpetuates her need for
fantasy because the reality she faces in her day-to-day relationship
to the house becomes highly dissatisfactory (Radway, 1986) against either
ideal.
Hoping to reconstruct the human relationship with landscape, Rose
hints that women, already having learned to do domestic spaces, might
also already have a solution: remap spaces as mutually nurturing human
and environmental networks instead of domineering lines of objectifying
sight. Such a perspective seems reasonable, especially in the context
of the family home. But Rose falls prey to the same romanticism she
condemns by assuming that nurturing, naturally, is what home-makers
facilitate--a conclusion that once again makes women responsible for
home-making. Furthermore, for women, the home environment is a field
of labor not sustenance. Refocusing on seeing the household as a series
of intimate human relationships rather than as a house to be controlled
in a battle of agency over environment offers an optimistic alternative.
However, until women take a domestic role other than homemaker, changing
their visual orientation to the house’s landscape will not change their
material relationship to its work. Theoretically or psychologically
changing a woman’s relationship with feminized space, especially in
the home, does not "magically represent an intervention in social constructions
of the real" (Kirby, 1996, p. 117).
Resistance: Home-Making to Erase the Household
U.S. consumer marketing asks women to become neurotic about controlling
housework and the home’s aesthetic landscape. But women can turn this
ideology into a nearly erotic attraction to houses emptied of the people
who make housework. Interior home design and decor magazines provide
readers with a kind of home erotica. The obvious fancywork is a perpetual
cycle of housekeeping for women who struggle to erase evidence of the
home’s people in the house’s rooms. But Janice Radway (1986) suggests
there may be a more subtle kind of applique‚ at work here--a therapeutic
"womanly subtext" reading "against the grain." Resistant practices that
symbolically erase the ideological irritant represent feminist opportunity,
even if women haven’t fully articulated or understood their own resistance,
and even if the resistance serves to perpetuate their own conflicting
positions.
If a homemaker is always on duty when she is in the house, then
stealing some household time to get pleasure from looking at magazine
pictures is itself a subversive activity. Magazine reading when the
family isn’t home makes for even better pleasure. Using the precious
little time when the house is empty for personal leisure is a subversive
act because the most efficient housework gets done when the house is
empty of children and husbands. Because the house is rarely empty of
other family members when the homemaker herself is home, empty-house
time for leisure or work is rare. The growing number of women who base
their career offices at home find leisure time in the house becomes
even more scarce because household housework and career homework compete
for the home-maker/home-worker’s time. So reading magazines of any sort
for homemakers is a sinful pleasure that wastes empty-house. Like all
sinful pleasures, there is a certain amount of guilt involved. Even
when she’s not alone in the house, her magazine reading is a selfish
treat. For a brief time she simply refuses to share herself with others
or the work others make (Radway, 1986).
Choosing to read home interior design and decor magazines instead
of The Seven Sisters_ Good Housekeeping genre represents another form
of resistance. Interior design magazines further erase the household
by providing a fantasy of empty beautiful rooms instead of good housekeeping
advice on removing stains, preparing holiday Jell-O molds, or dealing
with teenage mood swings. The decorating fantasy of creating a personalized
environment for yourself is a more satisfying project than getting advice
on cleaning, cooking, or playing household referee. The Seven Sisters
magazines always explicitly remind readers that they are at the mercy
of others living in the house. But home-making design and decor magazines
fantasize complete control of the house emptied of other people.
Similarly, there is an element of self-validation in home design
magazine reading. If her house is fashionable, at least at its ideal
moments, then by default, so is she. What’s more, by dressing the house
for herself, she can enjoy looking at--actually see--a symbolic version
of herself. This self-validation has nothing to do with her household
people or cleaning skills; they are erased in favor of her personal
identity expressed through decoration. She may be no good at housekeeping,
mothering, or wifing, but darn it, she has style. Decorating the house
does offer tremendous opportunity for creative expression, even if only
picking up second-hand pieces at yard sales.
Finally, even though the house may be cramped with too much furniture
and decorated to near gaudy, or even though her economic situation may
waver on the brink of financial disaster, home design and decor magazines
can still offer the home-maker ideas to own as a commodity. If she can’t
consume material house-furnishing artifacts, then she can consume house-furnishing
ideas. She can buy them and own them through these magazines, and she
can hoard them up like collectibles or trade them with her friends.
The tension between home making and housekeeping hinges on the
family. Sinful pleasure in stealing time or empty house; the fantasy
of perfect, empty rooms that make housework invisible; validation of
self as designer rather than house-worker; and buying decorating ideas
as commodities all erase the home’s other people from the material house.
These interpretations of reading home design and decor magazines subvert
and resist the home-maker’s other housekeeping responsibilities and
offer therapeutic escape from the reality of home-making as unending
servitude to the household. At the same time, by virtue of their relationship
to the house itself as well as to the home-maker, these magazines and
the home-maker’s zigzagging practices perpetuate the house as woman’s
world, the place she is best suited to explore and invent her identity.
Having located this subversive reading, the next step is to replace
the home-maker’s worldview of her household responsibilities with a
more conscious and empowered set of practices and discourses that disrupt
her identification with the home, relieve her of her primary responsibility
to the house, and extend her influence beyond the private sphere.
If reading these magazines symbolically erases the family’s presence
as an irritant to the fantasy of perfect, empty rooms, then how women
deal with their families’ presence inside their corporeal homes becomes
another ideological seam to explore. If perfect, empty rooms do not
accommodate the family, if the two concepts themselves, family and beautiful
house, are mutually exclusive as women’s culture currently constructs
them, then which one wins the home-maker’s attention becomes the important
next question.
Intervention: Prying the Housework out of Home-Making
The group of practices associated with interior design and decor
magazines seems to be about erasures. Publishers systematically erase
their female readers’ labor intensive relationship with the home. Readers
who buy into these magazines’ ideal versions of home erase the difference
between a beautiful house as museum of personal identity and a home
where families impinge on the material world with their bodies. Publishers
and readers seem to ignore the difference between a house and a home
while perpetuating both as woman’s sphere.
Still, Radway’s (1986) prediction holds that subordinate groups
may cultivate resistant, even subversive, practices that undermine dominant
ideologies. At least the theory holds in the case of my community of
women. While I make no claims beyond my own experience, I find an astonishing
consistency in my friends’ and neighbors’ awareness that the ideal house
is a practical impossibility but still a delightful fantasy. However,
this erotica has less to do with serving the family by crafting a better
home than with carving out a controlled metaphysical sphere of influence
in which to retreat for some personal leisure and privacy. This, too,
is an erasure--of the family.
All these erasures zigzag across ideological seams. As homemakers,
we have bought an ideal of home as both sight of pleasure and site of
leisure, a fiction for working moms. Trying to materialize this fantasy
by asserting our authority as head housekeepers only makes more work
that further removes us from leisure. It also aligns the sight of the
family in opposition to pleasure. Now I begin to persuade my friends,
who most of the time resist my feminism, that the situation depriving
them of down time "is not naturally occurring" or "inevitable" (Radway,
1986). In fact, it may be as much a result of our own practice of appointing
ourselves household boss as it is the result of ideologies that "hail"
us (Althusser, 1971) as homemakers. At the same time I have opened a
discussion about household control as well as personal time and space--for
everyone--in my own household. While I may not be ready to relinquish
my symbolic custody of the house, at least I understand my desire for
it. And I consciously am trying to invite my family to share that space
with me.
To be sure, I find reflexive and interpersonal
intervention difficult. But this kind of border-crossing communication
inspires and informs my feminism. Becoming adept at locating "ideological
seams" and reading for resistant "womanly subtexts" offers academic
feminists a useful tool for connecting their scholarship to political
action off campus, at home, in the community.
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